Releasing our need to fix people.

Constantly trying to control and fix people is a form of addiction. 

When we have an addiction to a behavior our subconscious mind works to supply the need.

If we are, for example, addicted to anger, we will strangely attract situations, people and things that supply this form of chemical or drug to our systems.

Being addicted to trying to fix, change or control another, we will always be drawn to people who will supply this. How do we overcome this need?

Practice detachment is one way.

Prayers are another.  Hypnosis is yet another powerful way to overcome this need.

If you are always attracting someone who needs fixing a good question to ask ourselves would be: " Is this person fulfilling some unconscious need of mine?"